Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR, Trauma, Complex PTSD, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Marriage, Focus on the Family

Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Emerson Eggerich, Focus on the Family, and Tony Robbins

***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/ read less
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Episodes

Coping with Grief During the Holidays
Yesterday
Coping with Grief During the Holidays
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson delve into navigating the unique challenges that grief presents during the holiday season. With compassionate insights and expert advice, this episode covers how to honor loved ones while finding personal comfort and embracing joy. Listeners will find valuable tips on accepting emotions, creating space for grieving, and setting realistic expectations. Tim and Ruth also discuss the importance of self-care, setting boundaries, and seeking support from trusted individuals. Discover how small acts of kindness and engaging in new or old traditions can help honor those lost while moving forward. Whether you're looking to support your own grief journey or help someone else this holiday season, this episode offers practical and gentle guidance. Tim and Ruth remind us that it's okay to hold space for both grief and joy, taking things one day at a time, and simplifying holiday activities to focus on what's truly meaningful. Join us as we explore these essential strategies for navigating grief during the festive season. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 220 - Navigating Grief During the Holiday Season
3d ago
Ep 220 - Navigating Grief During the Holiday Season
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson guide you through life's challenges with empathy and expertise. As the holiday season approaches, they introduce a new mini-series focused on grief, a complex emotion that can be particularly challenging during festive times. In this first episode, Tim and Ruth delve into the stages of grief, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and processing your emotions. They discuss how grief isn't a linear journey but rather a series of waves that can hit unexpectedly. By understanding these stages—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—listeners are encouraged to embrace their feelings and find ways to heal. Join them as they explore how to hold space for both joy and grief, ensuring that the memory of loved ones is honored while still allowing room for healing and happiness. Whether you're personally grieving or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and practical strategies to navigate this emotional landscape. Stay tuned for the next episodes in the series, which will provide tips for managing grief during the holidays and supporting others in their grief journey.   [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 219 - Navigating Life's Pivots: Embracing Change for Growth
Nov 14 2024
Ep 219 - Navigating Life's Pivots: Embracing Change for Growth
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, share insights on transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth. This week, they explore the art of pivoting when things don't go as planned. Discover how emotional and financial attachments can hinder change, and learn the importance of assessing situations to make informed decisions. With engaging anecdotes, Tim and Ruth emphasize the significance of adapting to life's unpredictable turns and re-evaluating goals to align with family values and personal well-being. Join them as they discuss strategies for recognizing when it's time to pivot and how to approach change with an optimistic mindset. Whether you're facing a minor shift or a significant life decision, this episode offers valuable guidance for navigating transitions and fostering healthier relationships. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 218 - The Purposeful Art of Communication
Nov 12 2024
Ep 218 - The Purposeful Art of Communication
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson explore the fundamental purpose of communication in relationships. As licensed marriage and family therapists, they delve into the reasons we communicate and how purposeful communication can foster deeper connections, reduce conflict, and enhance personal growth. This episode kicks off with an intriguing story about a client with schizoaffective disorder, highlighting the power of vocabulary and the true purpose of communication: mutual understanding. The Olsons discuss how communication is a two-way street aimed at building connections, sharing information, expressing needs and emotions, resolving conflicts, and facilitating growth and learning. Through engaging examples and expert insights, Tim and Ruth offer practical strategies for becoming more intentional and mindful communicators. They emphasize the importance of humor, vulnerability, and empathy in conversations to strengthen relationships and navigate conflicts successfully. Join the Olsons in this insightful episode as they guide you to harness the transformative power of communication. Whether you're looking to heal past wounds or simply improve your interactions, this episode provides the tools you need to create meaningful and fulfilling connections. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 217 - Election Day Anxiety: Finding Calm Amidst Chaos
Nov 7 2024
Ep 217 - Election Day Anxiety: Finding Calm Amidst Chaos
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into personal growth and relationship building. In this episode, recorded just days before election day, we shift focus from systemic election anxiety to personal management strategies for staying calm post-election. Join us as we explore how personal agency, adaptability, and focusing on what you can control can empower you to manage anxiety. We discuss the importance of staying connected with others, even amidst differing political views, and how to engage in productive conversations without escalating tensions. Discover mindfulness and grounding techniques to remain present, and learn the value of resilience in navigating life's uncertainties. Whether you've already voted or are anxiously awaiting results, this episode offers practical insights for maintaining mental well-being during turbulent times. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 216 - Navigating Election Day Anxiety: A Therapeutic Perspective
Nov 5 2024
Ep 216 - Navigating Election Day Anxiety: A Therapeutic Perspective
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to a special Election Day episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, guide you through the tension and anxiety that often accompany election seasons. In this episode, Tim and Ruth offer a calming voice of reason, discussing the balance of power within the U.S. government system and how it limits radical changes post-election. They also emphasize the importance of understanding individual influence at local and state levels, which often impacts daily life more than federal politics. Drawing on their expertise in trauma and mental health, the Olson's provide personal strategies to manage election-related fears, reminding listeners of the enduring stability of democratic systems and the deeper belief that a higher power is ultimately in control. Join them as they encourage you to stay informed, exercise your right to vote, and maintain a balanced perspective amidst political uncertainties. Tune in for practical advice and emotional support, empowering you to navigate this election season with resilience and hope. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 215 - The Ledger of Wrongs: Clearing the Path to Healthy Relationships
Oct 16 2024
Ep 215 - The Ledger of Wrongs: Clearing the Path to Healthy Relationships
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this engaging episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson explore the concept of the mental "ledger" we keep, often unintentionally, of the wrongs done to us. Through a personal story about racquetball, Tim illustrates how this ledger can lead to frustration and resentment if left unchecked. The Olsons discuss practical strategies for addressing these feelings by either actively forgiving others or changing behaviors to even out perceived imbalances in relationships. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and understanding different perspectives to maintain harmony and prevent conflicts from escalating. Listeners are encouraged to examine their own relationships and consider how they can clear their mental ledgers to foster healthier connections. Whether it's through open communication or behavioral adjustments, this episode offers valuable insights into transforming adversity into opportunities for personal growth and stronger relationships.   [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 214 - Navigating the World of Sales: A Journey Through Car Dealership Experiences
Oct 15 2024
Ep 214 - Navigating the World of Sales: A Journey Through Car Dealership Experiences
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson guide you in transforming life's challenges into opportunities for growth and healthier relationships. In this episode, they delve into the intriguing world of sales, exploring how different approaches can impact both the buyer and the seller. Join Tim and Ruth as they share their recent experiences at three car dealerships, each offering a unique insight into sales tactics and customer service. Discover how underlying assumptions and personal attitudes play a crucial role in the sales process, influencing trust and satisfaction. Through engaging storytelling and expert insights, learn about the psychology behind sales interactions, from high-pressure tactics to genuine customer care. Whether you're wary of salespeople or seeking to improve your negotiation skills, this episode provides valuable strategies for navigating the sales landscape with confidence. Tune in to gain wisdom and practical tips for fostering better communication, making informed decisions, and creating meaningful connections in the world of sales. If you're ready to transform adversity into triumph, this episode is your guide to personal growth and healing from past experiences. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 213 - Unpacking EMDR: Addressing Accessibility and Cost Concerns
Oct 10 2024
Ep 213 - Unpacking EMDR: Addressing Accessibility and Cost Concerns
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation  Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, seasoned marriage and family therapists, guide you through transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. This episode concludes their insightful series on Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) by addressing the criticisms related to its accessibility and cost. The Olsons delve into the financial aspects of therapy, discussing the impact of insurance on session availability and therapist caseloads. They highlight the cost-effectiveness of EMDR, emphasizing its potential for faster symptom reduction and fewer overall sessions compared to other therapeutic methods. Accessibility is also a key focus, with discussions on the growing number of trained EMDR therapists and the increasing inclusion of EMDR training in counseling programs. The episode explores the benefits of telehealth, which has expanded EMDR's reach, making it more accessible to diverse populations, including those in remote areas or with limited mobility. Join Tim and Ruth as they provide expert insights and practical strategies to help you navigate the complexities of mental health and therapy. Whether you're seeking healing from past traumas or aiming to strengthen your relationships, this episode offers valuable perspectives and encouragement on your journey to wellness. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 212 - Beyond Trauma: Exploring the Depths of EMDR Therapy
Oct 8 2024
Ep 212 - Beyond Trauma: Exploring the Depths of EMDR Therapy
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another enlightening episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, dive into the intricacies of EMDR therapy. This week, they address the criticism that EMDR places too much emphasis on trauma memory processing, potentially overlooking broader psychological and social factors. Join Tim and Ruth as they unpack how EMDR can act as a gateway to resolving wider issues by first tackling deep-seated trauma. They explain how trauma often underlies various mental health challenges, including anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties, and how EMDR can unearth and process these memories to pave the way for healing. The episode also explores the holistic nature of EMDR, which incorporates relationship building, skill development, and emotional regulation. Learn how EMDR isn't just about processing memories but also about equipping clients with the tools to handle emotional challenges effectively, leading to healthier relationships and personal growth. Tune in for insightful discussions, expert opinions, and practical strategies that emphasize the transformative potential of EMDR therapy in addressing both trauma and its ripple effects on everyday life. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 211 - Debunking the Placebo Myth: The Real Power of EMDR
Oct 3 2024
Ep 211 - Debunking the Placebo Myth: The Real Power of EMDR
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson delve into the world of EMDR therapy. Today, we tackle the common criticism that EMDR's effectiveness is merely a placebo effect. Join us as we explore the origins of this belief, and how extensive research and real-world outcomes challenge this notion. In this episode, we discuss the placebo effect in depth, clarifying its meaning and implications in therapeutic settings. Discover how EMDR consistently outperforms placebo treatments in numerous studies, showcasing its true potential in healing trauma and PTSD. We also highlight fascinating neurobiological evidence demonstrating EMDR's impact on brain function, leading to lasting change. Whether you're a skeptic or a believer, this episode will provide you with valuable insights into the transformative power of EMDR therapy. Tune in to learn how this therapy can help rewire your brain's response to trauma, offering long-term relief and healing. Don't miss this opportunity to deepen your understanding and challenge preconceived notions about therapy. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 210 - EMDR: Confronting Trauma Without Fear and Healing the Mind
Oct 1 2024
Ep 210 - EMDR: Confronting Trauma Without Fear and Healing the Mind
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy with your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. In this episode, we dive deep into the potential criticisms of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy, focusing on the concern of re-traumatization. Join us as we explore the importance of therapist qualifications, client readiness, and the adaptive information processing model in minimizing risks associated with EMDR. Learn how this powerful therapy can help you confront and heal from past traumas, transforming your emotional responses and expanding your world. If you're ready to face your trauma head-on and seek healing, this episode provides valuable insights and practical strategies to support you on your journey. Tune in and discover how EMDR can unlock your mind's potential for self-healing. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 209 - Debunking EMDR Myths: Effectiveness Beyond PTSD
Sep 26 2024
Ep 209 - Debunking EMDR Myths: Effectiveness Beyond PTSD
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. In this episode, we dive into the criticisms surrounding EMDR therapy, specifically the claims that its effectiveness is overstated. We'll compare EMDR to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Exposure Therapy, discussing their respective benefits and drawbacks. Additionally, we'll explore how EMDR is not just for PTSD, but also effective for treating depression, anxiety, phobias, OCD, addiction, and chronic pain. Join us as we debunk the myths and provide evidence-based insights into the transformative power of EMDR therapy. Whether you're a skeptic or a believer, this episode will shed light on the broader applications and benefits of this innovative therapeutic approach. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 208 - Debunking EMDR Myths: The Science Behind Healing Trauma
Sep 24 2024
Ep 208 - Debunking EMDR Myths: The Science Behind Healing Trauma
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. In this episode, we dive deep into the world of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and address some common criticisms and concerns. We'll explore the debate around the necessity of eye movements in the EMDR process and discuss alternative forms of bilateral stimulation, such as beeping sounds and tactile buzzers. You'll hear about the fascinating theories behind why EMDR works, from mimicking REM sleep to enhancing brain hemisphere communication. Join us as we unravel the layers of personal growth, healing from trauma, and building healthy relationships. If you're here to heal, understand yourself or your relationships better, you're in the right place. So sit back, get comfortable, and let's start healing. Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 207 - Why Therapy Fails: Common Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them
Sep 19 2024
Ep 207 - Why Therapy Fails: Common Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. As experienced therapists with backgrounds in addressing trauma and mental health disorders, we believe there is hope and there certainly is healing. In this episode, we dive into the reasons why therapy can sometimes fail. We'll explore the importance of ruling out physiological issues, the critical role of the therapist-client relationship, and the impact of waiting too long to seek help. We also discuss the significance of session frequency, managing expectations, and the necessity of active involvement in the therapeutic process. Whether you're here to heal, better understand yourself, or improve your relationships, this episode offers valuable insights to help you navigate the complexities of therapy and maximize its benefits. So sit back, get comfortable, bring your trauma and your drama, and let's start healing. Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 206 - People Hate this Tool-But it is Very Effective
Sep 17 2024
Ep 206 - People Hate this Tool-But it is Very Effective
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. In this episode, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts, delve into an often-overlooked tool for mental well-being: journaling. Discover how journaling can help you calm the storm within your mind, process heavy emotions, and reduce mental overwhelm. Tim and Ruth explore different types of journaling, from managing immediate emotional struggles to using it as a daily habit for enhanced mental clarity and focus. They share expert insights, practical strategies, and personal anecdotes to help you effectively incorporate journaling into your life. Whether you're dealing with trauma, seeking better emotional management, or looking to improve your communication skills, this episode provides valuable guidance on how to use journaling as a powerful tool for mental health and personal growth. Join the conversation and start your journey towards healing today! [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 205 - The Cookie Jar Conundrum: How Unresolved Tasks Affect Your Mental Health
Sep 12 2024
Ep 205 - The Cookie Jar Conundrum: How Unresolved Tasks Affect Your Mental Health
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session   Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. In today's episode, we delve into how backlogged or unresolved tasks can negatively affect your mood and mental health. Using a humorous story about a cookie jar search, we explore the emotional impact of seemingly minor tasks that pile up over time. Join us as we discuss the importance of addressing these tasks to unburden yourself and improve your overall well-being. We'll share personal anecdotes, expert insights, and practical strategies to help you manage your to-do list effectively and reduce stress. Whether you're looking to better understand yourself or your relationships, you're in the right place. So sit back, get comfortable, and let's start healing together. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 204 - Mastering Over-Communication in Busy and Difficult Seasons
Sep 10 2024
Ep 204 - Mastering Over-Communication in Busy and Difficult Seasons
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode, we dive into the importance of over-communicating during busy seasons. Using a hectic day from their own lives as an example, Tim and Ruth discuss how effective communication can prevent misunderstandings and ensure that everyone stays on the same page. They share personal anecdotes and practical tips on maintaining clear communication, even amidst chaos, and emphasize the significance of having grace and patience with your partner. Whether you're navigating a busy schedule or working through relationship challenges, this episode offers valuable insights on how to communicate effectively and maintain harmony in your relationship. Tune in to learn how to transform adversity into triumph and create meaningful, fulfilling connections. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 203 - Mastering the Art of Sleep: Techniques to Calm Your Mind
Sep 5 2024
Ep 203 - Mastering the Art of Sleep: Techniques to Calm Your Mind
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast that empowers you to transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. We're your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts. Each week, we bring you engaging conversations, expert insights, and practical strategies to help you heal from the past, foster healthy communication, and develop enduring love. In this episode, we dive into a technique designed to help you fall asleep and manage intrusive thoughts. Building on our previous discussion about the "pink elephant" phenomenon, we explore how to redirect your mind from persistent worries by focusing on a simple yet powerful exercise. Learn how to use the alphabet to create a chain of words that will occupy your mind, allowing you to relax and drift into sleep. This method can also be useful during the day to refocus your thoughts and reduce anxiety. Join us as we guide you through this process, share personal experiences, and explain the science behind why this technique works. Whether you're struggling with sleepless nights or just need a way to calm your mind, this episode offers practical advice to help you achieve a peaceful state of relaxation. Thank you for tuning in to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy. If you found this episode helpful, please share it with a friend and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Remember, there's always hope and there's always help. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
Ep 202 - Taming the Pink Elephant: Redirecting Your Focus for Emotional Clarity
Sep 3 2024
Ep 202 - Taming the Pink Elephant: Redirecting Your Focus for Emotional Clarity
We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, the podcast dedicated to transforming life's challenges into opportunities for growth and healthier relationships. Hosted by licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson, this episode dives into the concept of "pink elephants"—those nagging problems that occupy our minds. Learn why focusing on these issues can heighten anxiety and discover practical strategies to redirect your thoughts and manage emotions effectively. Join us for expert insights and engaging conversations designed to help you heal from the past, foster healthy communication, and build enduring love. In this episode, Tim and Ruth explore how shifting your focus from persistent worries to positive distractions can lead to emotional clarity. They share personal anecdotes, practical advice, and even delve into the importance of order of operations in emotional management. Whether dealing with personal struggles, relationship conflicts, or parenting challenges, this episode offers valuable tools for navigating emotional turbulence. Tune in to learn how to manage your mind, calm your emotions, and approach problems with a clearer perspective. [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.] {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}